There are many clients who come to see me because they are not exactly suave in the bedroom.
Because we are there for them. And by being there, we actually help them to expand their personal boundaries. So if you are one of these types, keep reading. Here are some tips on how to expand your sexual boundaries with your escort.
1. Drop the guilt.
Sex is a beautiful thing, nothing to be ashamed of. I have noticed with a lot of men there is guilt. And I am not sure if its guilt from enjoying it or guilt from the act itself.
I have had guys stop seeing me completely because they felt we were sinning. And they felt the urges they had were unhealthy. Sex is healthy. Sex is good. But we have been raised and brainwashed into believing it’s a dirty thing. People tend believe mostly women suffer from this syndrome. But it is just as common in men as it is women. I have witnessed it numerous times.
Once you bust the nut, the guilt sets in automatically. You have to reset your mind or else you will always have this problem.
2. Take your time.
If you feel anxious or nervous, do not feel embarrassed to let your companion know. She will know better how to proceed if you let her know how you feel. There is no rush. And she has probably dealt with similar issues before.
3. Try to laugh.
Okay sometimes, things will happen. And you just have to laugh with it. Don’t take it so seriously.
True story. It was a first meeting, the guy was a pilot. And he was nervous. I was still new so I was kind of nervous and right in the middle, he accidentally slid his dick in my butt. I shot straight up screaming, headbutting him in the process, giving him a bloody nose and me a hickey on my forehead. Once we got over the initial shock of what had happened, we laughed. We had to! It lightened the rest of the session so we could continue.
Much more cautiously, thankfully.
4. Relax, relax, relax.
I know for some of the nervous guys and newbies, time spent with an escort may seem nerve wracking. A session is not meant to be nerve wracking. You don’t have to go straight in to sex. If you want to talk for a bit, let her know. If you want to lay and cuddle for a few, that’s fine. Anything that you feel comfortable with will make your experience better.
I know there is no easy way to settle nerves. And sex for some tends to bring out the worst. But sex is supposed to be a relaxing and enjoyable experience for both parties. If you can just keep that thought in your head, you should be okay.
Relax and enjoy the ride!
Once you get over the first hurdle, it’s nothing but pleasure.